My sincere condolences to you and your family during this difficult time but please know that "God is close to the brokenhearted; He saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalms 34:18)." May God provide you and your family with peace and comfort during this difficult time. I pray that you find hope in the beautiful promise the Bible contains for the future at John 5:28, 29 and Acts 24:15.
I would like to send my condolences to the family of Barbara. I would like to leave you with a comforting scripture during this difficult time Job 14:14,15